After all Hailey had been through, she was grateful to
have a good place to sleep, hot food to eat and clothing to wear. "I
was grateful to have been sent to the Methodist Home." She lived
with her mother most of her life. Her mother and father abandoned her
at someone's house at age 15. Hurt and depressed, Hailey felt no one
loved her.
Months later her mother gave a simple explanation for abandonment... "your
father wants me all to himself." Hailey struggled emotionally with
feelings that she did not understand—grief and guilt that turned
into anger towards others.
Growing up Hailey had to be responsible. "I took care of my mom
before myself." She remembers helping her mom get ready for bed
and putting her to sleep. She remembers learning to cook. Someone taught
her how to do laundry when they stayed a shelter. She remembers they
never had enough money for food or a place to live. They lived in different
apartments, hotels and shelters, typically less than six months. Hailey
usually carried a bag with all her possessions from place to place.
Hailey lived in a situation of chaos, where she had to make adult decisions.
She suffered from depression and feelings of hopelessness. "The
Methodist Home helped me with my depression and now I have hopes and
dreams for better things," she said.
"Since being at The Home, I have become closer to God than ever before.
I hear Him calling me to talk to teens about Him. I want to go to a Christian
College and become a Youth Minister."
Hailey graduated the Methodist Home's program and received her GED
this year. She plans to work and save money to get a car and a place
to live on her own. We are proud of Hailey's work to overcome her past
and make a brighter future. |