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Victoria Was Sorry
Sometimes the young boys and girls at the Methodist Home amaze me
when I see one of them truly transform while with us. It is a testament
to God's love and our staff's determination to help heal these broken
hearts.
One young lady is a shining example. She quickly and successfully completed the
program in only five and a half months --a rare accomplishment. Her great
attitude inspired her peers to follow in her footsteps.
Victoria wrote this insightful letter prior to leaving the Home:
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"No one ever puts going to the Methodist Home on
their list of future goals, the same as no one ever premeditates choices
that hurt themselves and the ones that love them. Yet I made choices
that led to my placement [at the Home], and I have suffered the consequences
of being away from my family and what I thought were friends.
One of my staff used to tell me, 'a fool learns from their own mistakes, and
a wise person from the mistakes of others" I have done a little of both.
It's a confusing emotion to regret so many things, but to know that the outcome
has been worth the price."
"I am so sorry that my selfishness has hurt my mom and my family, and even
more regretful that I have missed out on watching my niece grow into a toddler.
What led to my success was the relationships I made. I first made relationships
with my peers, and I learned that I was actually rather fortunate to have a
family that cares about me. This was a real eye opener for me. I ignored and
took my family for granted. "
"I made connections with some and realized that my peers were hungry for
my attention and my help. I found myself needing to be needed, and liking it.
Then I made relationships with staff. Some were simply helpful and open to
listening to me vent, while one staff in particular showed me unconditional
love and acceptance that fueled the fire already burning within me."
" As a teenager, returning home I'll be faced with the same obstacles
as I had before I left. The difference now is that I've learned a lot
about the consequences of poor choices from my own experiences and those
of my peers. Now, I have made a choice be a leader and lead by example...just
like I have witnessed in those I respect.
It is a bittersweet goodbye to leave the Methodist Home, but I feel I'm due.
Some relationships were only temporary, and some will last a lifetime. As I
begin my new adventure into the real world of hurdles, I have been empowered
and I feel like I'm ready for what life has to throw my way. Thank you to all
those who had faith in me." |
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