We believe that all children are worthy of God's gift of wholeness of life.

 

Victoria Was Sorry

Sometimes the young boys and girls at the Methodist Home amaze me when I see one of them truly transform while with us. It is a testament to God's love and our staff's determination to help heal these broken hearts.
One young lady is a shining example. She quickly and successfully completed the program in only five and a half months --a rare accomplishment. Her great attitude inspired her peers to follow in her footsteps.
Victoria wrote this insightful letter prior to leaving the Home:

 

"No one ever puts going to the Methodist Home on their list of future goals, the same as no one ever premeditates choices that hurt themselves and the ones that love them. Yet I made choices that led to my placement [at the Home], and I have suffered the consequences of being away from my family and what I thought were friends.
One of my staff used to tell me, 'a fool learns from their own mistakes, and a wise person from the mistakes of others" I have done a little of both. It's a confusing emotion to regret so many things, but to know that the outcome has been worth the price."
"I am so sorry that my selfishness has hurt my mom and my family, and even more regretful that I have missed out on watching my niece grow into a toddler.
What led to my success was the relationships I made. I first made relationships with my peers, and I learned that I was actually rather fortunate to have a family that cares about me. This was a real eye opener for me. I ignored and took my family for granted. "
"I made connections with some and realized that my peers were hungry for my attention and my help. I found myself needing to be needed, and liking it.
Then I made relationships with staff. Some were simply helpful and open to listening to me vent, while one staff in particular showed me unconditional love and acceptance that fueled the fire already burning within me."

" As a teenager, returning home I'll be faced with the same obstacles as I had before I left. The difference now is that I've learned a lot about the consequences of poor choices from my own experiences and those of my peers. Now, I have made a choice be a leader and lead by example...just like I have witnessed in those I respect.
It is a bittersweet goodbye to leave the Methodist Home, but I feel I'm due. Some relationships were only temporary, and some will last a lifetime. As I begin my new adventure into the real world of hurdles, I have been empowered and I feel like I'm ready for what life has to throw my way. Thank you to all those who had faith in me."